by Zack
- Do something athletic. It really doesn’t matter what it is: run, walk, bike, swim, play a sport, etc. Heck, do a combo of any of the above. Not only is this good for you, but it makes you look better. The endorphins released during exercise have been shown to reduce stress, improve memory, improve immune function, and give you a natural glow. Also, it is important for guys to know that you care about your health. Even if you are already in shape, hearing that you are going out for a run is sexy. Not to mention that chances are we will be hitting the gym more…can’t let you out exercise us.
- Learn your way around an Xbox. You don’t have to go pro, but knowing how to turn on an Xbox and what the green button does will score you some points. Learn the layout of the buttons and what they do in most games. The right trigger fires weapons in shooters, the green button advances and the red button will take you back. If you really want to get some points, learn how to play the games. More points are awarded if you can work and play a PS3 and Wii. If you don’t want to put in that much effort, the simplest thing you can do is learn Guitar Hero/Rock Band. You don’t even have to play an instrument, just sing while we are playing and your sexy factor will rise. Also, don’t worry about being too good…there is no such thing. I know I’d brag to my friends that my girl could kick their asses in Halo or Guitar Hero.
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| Its not rocket science ladies. |
- Don’t act dumb. I don’t know where this originated, but there is an epidemic moving through society, women acting dumber and shallower than they really are. Do you know why many guys go after girls like that? Because we know that girls who act like that are easier to get with. If that’s what you want and that is the type of guy you are looking for then by all means ditz it up. It isn’t going to take us very long at all to see through you. Having well thought out opinions, sexy. A woman who isn’t afraid to stand up for those opinions and debate a guy on them, sexy. A woman who can engage a guy mentally is going to stay on our minds. An extra bonus, as a guy we feel even more privileged if an intelligent woman chooses to be with us.
- Understand the big three sports: football, basketball and baseball. For minimal points, just know the basics (if you have to pick one I’d pick football). Know how scoring works and the usual rules. Pretty much, be able to sit down and watch with a decent understanding of how the game works. For more points, understand the rules of the games. Knowing the difference between a holding penalty and a facemask is sexy. At this point, the more you know about a sport the sexier it is. Explaining why the prevent defense is the dumbest idea in football is hot. Really, really hot. An aside: if you have a guy in mind, figure out which sport he really likes and focus on that one. For example, I don’t care at all about baseball so talking about the pros/cons of a DH does nothing for me. But I love football and would find is sexy as hell if a girl debated me on who’s better Manning or Brees.
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| Choose wisely! |
- Don’t feel threatened when we look at other women. The plain truth is, no matter how attractive we find you, other women will still be attractive to us. We are going to look whether you want us to or not. You can actually take it as a compliment. We would rather hold your hand, eat with you, buy you things, and spend our time with you than be chasing girls around. If you really want to gain some points, play the rating game with us. The rating game of course is rating a girl on a scale from 1-10. Tell us why you gave the rating you did. While this seems counter-intuitive, we actually become more attracted to you. We feel like you trust us when you do these things, and we feel like you are comfortable with your own attractiveness. These two things only make you sexier.
- Stop asking us what we are thinking all the time. Believe it or not, 90% of the time when you ask us that question we actually aren’t thinking about anything. I know this is a concept foreign to women, but believe me when I tell you that, as a guy, one of our favorite things to do is sit and think about nothing. It is very relaxing. If you can’t stop asking us, stop telling us that we can’t be thinking about nothing. We can and do. If you keep bothering us about it, we will think back to the last thing we were thinking about just to get you to stop asking. Asking us what we are thinking about all the time also creates a boy who cried wolf effect. When we are actually thinking about something important and you ask, our natural response will be defensive. We will be less likely to open up when it really matters. I simple solution to this problem is studying your man. We have a face for when we are spacing and thinking of nothing, and a face for when we are really thinking. Learn the difference and we will be forever in your debt.
